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Shared Stories
See all →The Phone Call I Almost Didn't Make
There were six months when I knew something was wrong with Sam and didn't pick up the phone. I'm telling this story so someone else picks up theirs.
A Friend of Sam · Denver, CO
What Sam Showed Me About Pretending
Sam was one of the first people who refused to pretend with me. After he died I realized how much of my own life I'd spent pretending — and how much I owed him for the chance to stop.
A Friend of Sam · Brooklyn, NY
The Friend Who Wouldn't Look Away
Sam never asked anyone to fix him. He asked us to keep showing up. That's harder than it sounds, and more important than I knew.
A Friend of Sam · Boston, MA
Love Doesn't Fix Everything, but It's Where Healing Starts
Substance use doesn’t just affect one person — it reshapes every relationship in your world. I spent years grappling with the deteriorating situation, resulting emotions and fallout, without the knowledge to navigate any of them. Loving someone through substance use challenges means showing up even when you don’t have answers.
Nancy · Annapolis, MD
Messages of Encouragement
See all →“To the parent who is awake at 3am worrying about your kid: you are not failing. The fact that you are awake, the fact that you care this much, is the proof. Whatever happens tomorrow, your love is doing something they can feel even when they cannot say so. Keep going.”
— A Friend of Sam
“To anyone reading this in the middle of a hard night: the morning is real. It will come. You do not have to feel hopeful right now. You only have to stay until the light comes back.”
— A Friend of Sam
“If you are carrying a secret about someone in your family — about their drinking, their using, their depression, the thing nobody talks about at dinner — you are carrying it for too many people. You are allowed to put it down. You are allowed to ask for help. The shame was never yours.”
— A Friend of Sam
“I lost a friend the way Sam's family lost Sam. What I want to say to anyone in the early days of that grief is this: it does not get smaller, but you get bigger around it. You learn to carry it. And one day, without noticing, you laugh at something they would have laughed at, and it feels like they are right there with you.”
— A Friend of Sam
“If you are the one holding everything together for someone you love, I see you. The work you are doing is invisible to almost everyone, and it is the most important work in the room. Rest when you can. You are not alone tonight.”
— A Friend of Sam
“I know what it feels like to be the friend on the outside, watching someone you love struggle and not knowing what to say. Say something anyway. The wrong words said with love land softer than the right words never spoken.”
— A Friend of Sam
“Whatever you are going through right now — as a parent, a sibling, a partner, a friend — your love is not wasted. Keep going.”
— A supporter
“I found this community when I had no one to talk to. I hope it finds you at the right moment too.”
— A supporter